The picture above is of my paternal grandparents on their wedding day. I absolutely love my grandmother's wedding dress and veil. She died when I was very young and only had one time getting to know me when I was about 2 years old. I have no memory whatsoever of her and that is something that really makes me sad.
This leads me into some other thoughts. I cherish my time with my grandchildren and get to spend lots of time with the 3 older boys who live close, Bradley 12, Isaiah 11, and Steven 7. I so wish we lived closer to our two youngest grandchildren Tate and Peyton. Jeff and I are trying to figure out when we can go and visit them that works for both us and for them. Since we had to cancel our trip earlier this Summer, this is something that we really feel we need to do soon. Praying we can find a way to make it work for all of us.
Life has been beyond busy here and time seems to just fly by. We have been determined to keep the gardens alive with this horrible heat. We had one soaking rain come through is the past 3 months. The thirsty ground took it all in and I could see that the plants were happier for a day or so before the heat again took its toll on them. I frequently have to water twice a day. The heat is also taking a toll on the hummingbirds who are drinking up all the nectar I put out for them. I have to refill the hummingbird feeder every 3 days now. It used to be once a week.
I have been harvesting squash, potatoes, raspberries, strawberries and blueberries from the garden. Our tomato plants are starting to set fruit, as are the cantaloupe plants. The cucumber plants are starting to produce tiny little cucumbers. The pole beans are struggling, and I don't know if we will get anything off them. Our apple tree and pear tree seem to be struggling and producing little sized fruit. I believe this is due to the heat and lack of water. I need to get better at making sure they stay well-watered.
Jeff and I spent about 2 weeks getting ready for our townwide yard sales. We did sell a bunch of stuff and made about $100 for us, $38 for Jeff's aunt and Heather also made money selling her delicious homemade huckleberry cinnamon rolls. We had lots of stuff left over so we took the sheets, blankets and bedspreads to the Red Cross Shelter that had been set up for victims of a big fire burning south of us. We met a sweet mother and daughter there who had left with only the clothing on their backs and asked if we had any sweaters since it got cold in the shelter at night. Jeff gave them a big bag full of sweaters from our yard sale and they were so grateful. I really do pray they have a home to return to. The rest of the items were donated to one of our local thrift stores that keeps the money in our community to help people get back on their feet again.
We have made many trips up to see Jeff's aunt and will be going up to see her once again tomorrow. We will deposit the money from the yard sale from the sale of some of her things into her account at the care center for her to use as she pleases. I really do enjoy our visits with her and am so glad that we are in each other's lives again. She is always pleased to hear how her cat Remmie is doing and this time I get to tell her how Remmie now cuddles with me at night and sometimes even during the day.
While in town tomorrow to visit Jeff's aunt, we will also be going to an appointment with a Medicare broker since Jeff will be 65 next month. Is it just me or is this whole Medicare thing confusing? Hopefully I will understand more after tomorrow. My reward for sitting through all of that is being able to go to a few thrift stores. The Goodwill up there has been newly redone and the items there are really nice. I have a few more things that I would like to pick up like some soft cotton lounge pants and I am hoping to find some either there or at another store. The last time we were there I found some needed things and some nice artwork.
Speaking of thrift stores, I found a really nice cuddly blanket that is perfect for this Winter and Christmas time. I also found a knome, a decorative plate, a shirt, and a few other items. The stores are putting out more Fall decor now and I am here for it! Today I actually went through the Fall decor I have on hand here at home. Most of it came from thrift stores. Very few items were bought new, as I find great stuff at the thrift stores, and I can't stand to pay retail for anything if possible.
I had better end this post here. I need to get a few things done before Chris comes to pick me up. We are having a birthday party for Isaiah at the skating rink (no, I will NOT be skating), followed by dinner at Panda Express. Jeff is working today so he has my car and he will just meet us at the party. This way I only have one car in town, and it gives me a chance to have some one on one time with Chris. We rarely get that chance anymore and both and I enjoy our visits.
Be blessed my friends and keep praying, staying strong and keeping your eyes and ears open. So much is going on in this crazy world and we need to be able to separate the truth from the lies. Make sure to also take time to relax, unplug and enjoy life to the fullest. We all need that balance to keep us sane.

