My husband and I have lived most of our married life with a fluctuating income. There were many years when we homeschooled our sons that we managed on his income alone. Now that our children are all grown, I am back working as a substitute teacher which means I have the Summers off and that means no income coming from me for 3-4 months out of the year. My husband still has a steady income so we are able to manage on that during those months. I had someone ask me recently how we are able to do this so I thought I would just do a post on it.
First of all, our mortgage payments are very low in comparison to many other people and even lower than rent payment would be. We bought a home that we could afford on one income and that has allowed us not to lose our home, even during a period of no income when my husband got hurt on the job and had to be home for awhile. The home we bought has a nice sized yard with fruit trees and we put in a garden. Every year we try something new or add another plant. This year we added a blackberry bush and today we found a pear tree on clearance that we will be planting to replace the 2 peach trees we lost. Right now in the garden we have cherries, blueberries, raspberries and strawberries all bearing fruit. Our Summer apple will give us fruit later in late August. We grow oregano, mint, thyme, parsley chives and basil to add wonderful flavor to meals. Lettuce, bok choi, rhubarb, squash, potatoes, peas, cucumbers, beans, eggplant and tomatoes are also growing in the garden. I like having fresh produce right from the garden to help cut down on the grocery budget.
I enjoy searching out great deals on things that we need and try to prepare ahead of time. I have a gift closet that I set aside items that I find all year round that I know someone would enjoy on a special occasion like birthdays, graduations, baby showers, bridal showers, weddings and Christmas. I also stock my pantry and freezer this way, taking advantage of sales combined with coupons and also freezing produce from our garden. I try not to waste food and during the summer will use the leftover morning coffee to make iced coffee as a afternoon treat.
The library is one of my favorite resources for free entertainment. Jeff and I borrow books and dvds from our little library here in town. Since it is part of the county library system, we can request things online and have access to lots of resources. We can even do an inter-library loan and get books from outside of our local library system. Our library also has a free magazine section where you can take home magazines that you want to read and can drop off ones that you have already read so that other people can enjoy them.
My husband and I do go out to eat and we do go to see movies in the theater, but we budget for these things. We will usually hit up a matinee movie and we only do this a few times a year. When we do eat out, it is usually at lunch. I have been able to get gift certificates through restaurants.com for pennies on the dollar to help offset the cost of dining out. Jeff and I also celebrate our birthdays during the Summer and we are sent all kinds of gift certificates for free birthday meals and treats. Today we used a gift certificate for a free meals at one of our favorite places and even with tip it costs a little over $10. We enjoy lots of free activities too like going to the river, picnics in the park, local festivals and just spending time with our family.
I think a big part of learning to live with a fluctuating income is to be thankful and content with all that we are blessed with and not living beyond our means. We are currently paying down credit card debt and should be completely debt free within the next few years. That will be a huge weight lifted off of us. Our plan, once we are debt free, is to then live below our means and aggressively save money towards our retirement years. We will still budget for trips to see family and to finally take a nice vacation for just the 2 of us. The key word there is BUDGET. If we don't plan for it, there will not be the money there when we need it. ;)
We live simply too. Our income is below what they classify as poverty level (for 3 adults) and yet we live comfortably and are content. We, like you have learnt to live frugally and to watch our pennies. We do everything you do and then some. The only difference these past two years is we don't have a garden. Where we live (in a mobile home park) there isn't enough space to garden at present. We are looking at changing that next year. HugsReplyDelete
:) Could you do some container gardening? I have had great luck this year with lettuce in a planter. The above things I mentioned are just the tip of the iceberg for our frugal life...there is so much more as you well know my friend. :)Delete
Nice post, Debbie. My husband and I are similar in are ways of life. Movie matinees only a couple times a yr or so and if we eat out it's not too frequently and normally lunch. I do sometimes bring home a pizza or rotisserie chicken, but each will make both of us a couple of meals and with the sale I get on them that's not a bad price at all.ReplyDelete
We have an AMAZING library system too and get all our books and dvd's there. We're avid readers and movie watchers.
Watching for those grocery sales helps too. We shop at Safeway which has a Just For You special savings feature and plus we get $ off of our gas purchase on top of the grocery savings. Sometimes we even get a dollar off per gallon! Pretty good. We also downsized from a rental house to a nice upgraded apartment that is saving us $650 a month!! And we love it here! John is retired, but waiting another year to draw his social security so we cut corners where we can and do all right.
Hope you have a nice weekend. :)
Thanks Lisa. :) I love the Safeway Just for You offers and load them up to my card. I really like that the new Safeway gas discount program can now be used at one of our Chevron stations. What a huge savings on your housing cost! I'm sure that extra $650 each month comes in very handy for whatever you need it for. Jeff and I have no retirement benefits with our jobs so it will be awhile before we can retire and that is only if we are able to save enough money to do so. Both of us enjoy our jobs so that really does help.Delete
I hope you also have a nice weekend. I have my soon to be DIL's Bridal Shower on Sunday and am looking forward to that. :)