Yes, I am still here. I have had to take a break and just take care of my mental health for a bit. I have still been doing money saving things around the house while dealing with backed up kitchen sinks, being worried about friends and family members serious health issues, and living in a constant state of stress while my baby boy Josh is in the Middle East sandwiched between 2 countries that hate the United States and have been actively attacking our military bases in the area.
I've made bread, sourdough crackers, and made a serious effort to eat from our pantry, fridge and freezer for the most part. Loads upon loads of laundry have been done and I have gone through my clothing so see if there is anything that I need since so many things do not fit me or that I really do not like anymore. This has led to a search for flannel shirts that I can wear as is or over other shirts. I have also been seeking out fun and oversized sweatshirts that make me giggle because of what they say on them. I've taken bags of clothing, shoes, and appliances I don't use anymore to the thrift stores and have gotten 20% off one item coupons for doing so.
Jeff and I went to an estate sale and he found a rolling rack thingy to extend his table saw when he is using larger pieces of wood for building projects. I found big pillar Christmas candles, Christmas ornaments including some from Hawaii, 2 seasons of McHale's Army, some other DVDs, some full slips for me (I have had a horrible time finding any), and some owl mugs and stuffed animals. Jeff and I have really gotten into the whole Harry Potter series, which we can stream here, and I want to do some of kind of old worldy library theme for this Winter after Christmas. I think it will be fun and cozy.
We've slowly been purging things that we no longer use, including those items that hide in the shadows under the sink. I love seeing the progress and the opening up of space under there. I'm starting to use a better system to make sure I rotate our food in the pantry and so far it is working out well.
One of my childhood friends had open heart surgery this morning and they almost lost her a couple of times according to her mother who is there with her. She had suffered a stroke a few years back and she has some severe heart issues. I am so thankful that she has pulled through and I pray for healing for her. I know she has a long journey ahead of her. She and I have reconnected and have rebuilt our friendship over the years and I would hate to lose her just as she is starting to heal emotionally from things that she is just now coming to terms with and learning to stand up for herself and set healthy boundaries. I am so proud of her for doing those things!
I chatted quickly with my sister this morning and she gave me some wonderful news...they found a bone marrow donor for her! She had a doctor's appointment this morning and they are doing more testing to make sure they have everything in place and ready. She has been told to rest as much as she can and save her energy. My sister's heart is not the strongest anymore and I am praying that everything works out with this donor because I don't think my sister's heart can take much more chemotherapy or radiation treatments. Jeff and I are waiting on some money to come in so that he and I can get our passports and I can be ready to fly down to be with her.
As for our Josh, I try to keep in close contact with him on a regular basis. Sometimes it is just a quick few lines on Facebook messenger and other times we do a video chat. He vents to me when he needs to and other times we laugh at silly things and tease each other. We have always had a tight bond and can both be very sarcastic....we just get each other. :) Jeff and I are also keeping in close contact with Lauren and the grandkids and recently had a video chat with them as our now 1 year old Peyton opened up her birthday gift from us. She loved the washable soft stuffed bunny we got for her and immediately started hugging it. We also got Tate a indoor putting green set up since he loves golf and his daddy bought him a set of gold clubs. When Lauren gets that all ready to set up, we are going to video chat then too. He has no idea yet that we got it for him. He is going to be very surprised and happy!
Now, as a Public Service announcement, I give you this:
Ruptured Natural Gas Pipeline Near Pullman Repaired
That's a LOT of stress to handle all the way around. My prayers that God will hold your whole family in His arms and give you His peace. May I say you're holding up remarkably well?
ReplyDeleteWe continue to purge, too, which is crazy as we only moved into this house not far over a year ago. I've done the same with clothes. It seems I wear a sort of "uniform". Out of laziness, I suppose. In the summer it's jeans and tees or polo shirts. Pretty ones if I'm going out. In the winter it's jeans with flannel shirts around the house, a mockneck underneath if I'm chilly. Going out into town it's jeans and a sweater. I had to buy a couple of pairs of new jeans with wide leg openings at the bottom (to cover the walking boot post surgery) and was grateful to find them on clearance. Your estate sale finds sound FUN.
Hang in there. --Elise
Definitely a lot going on to deal with. I pray your son Josh will return home safely and all who serve with him, and elsewhere, too, return home safely.
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you are quite well prepared to handle emergencies such as natural gas being shut off. I, too, try to prepare for such events as all it takes is one big earthquake to cause gas, water, power, etc., to be shut off. I'm not quite as prepared as I'd like to be, but, assuming I survive the earthquake, I have some extra water, etc.
Sending up prayers for your son and his safety, and for all military. I hope your friend recovers well. Glad they found a donor for your sister.
ReplyDeleteTake care and stay warm. Place your troubles in God's hands - He already knows the answers!
Prayers for you and all your family members. Wow - lots going on.
ReplyDeleteI remember when I had a pellet stove how surprised I was to learn I needed an electric power source for it to work. Same with the spetic system in that house - it wasn't gravity fed but pressure fed via electricity.
Here - I brought along my electric space heaters when I moved. Heat is gas so I'd need a backup if a pipeline went out.
On the up side -- i got two garden beds set up this week. One is 4x4ft and one is 3x 5 ft. The smaller one has soil and is growing lettuce, chard and beets. I think it's too late to plant anything else even transplants. I have two more beds to put together. Both 1x2ft. I have some soil here but need to get more to finish filling everything. It's not my original plan but I changed that once I had lived here a few months. This one will be more manageable.
Hugs to you and yours. SJ now in California
Hi, nice to meet you here in blogland, I like the name of your blog, the next chapter. I am praying for safety for Josh and good health for the people you mention. My blog is terragarden named after my love of gardening.
ReplyDeletePrayers for your Josh and you, and all the other young men and women who keep us safe here at home. Cindy/WV
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